He is like any other boy...and he has autism.
E was born in 2005, and does not have autism. He acts in ways that I had no idea about, laughs at my jokes, acts like a clown, plays with toys and watches spongebob too.
He is like any other boy...just like his brother
This is my musings, experiances, and anything else as the mum of one son with autism, and one son without it. I hope it makes a difference.
Ive been sorta busy the last week, well it was half term so kiddywinks were home so it was complete madness!! Ive decided to leave my blog to just grow naturally ( or should that be organically!) and just post about...well anything really!!
So, apart from having another essay due in a couple of weeks, my other concern (AGAIN) has been my eldest sons education. Although progress has been made today. To cut a long story short, I'm his carer as he has high functioning autism. I'm not gonna go on about it too much as that's not what i wanna do with this blog, but suffice to say, hes a normal kid, but sees and interprets the world differently. For instance, we are in the front room and I say to him " can you take your plate outside" Now YOU know that i mean the kitchen. HIS reply was "why do i have to take my plate to the garden, that's s stupid thing to do, you don't put plates in the garden"etc etc. I rest my case.
So I have trouble getting him to read and do homework at home, as in his mind school is for school work and home is for playing games! What do I find in his reading book....a note saying "please get him to learn these words as he is very behind and needs to make progress for middle school. " well I nearly blew my top, and I replied" I know he is behind and needs to make progress, I thought that was the SCHOOLS JOB!" ok bit OTT, but I keep telling them I'm having trouble getting him to do stuff at home and they, actually everyone, just ignores it. Its just me and the kids, and I cant go every day with hours spent arguing over reading a book! ( Ive already had 3 years of it so trust me I cant take much more!!)
I must say tho that today I found out that he is doing his homework in school and he IS doing it and NOT moaning about it...which is very good progress for him, and finally something postive from the school.
This is just a snippet of what goes on, and if you magnify it by about 1000 then "welcome to my life". I will just carry on with the mental exhaustion...! (no not really, I'm good to go!!)
End of ranting.....
Ok its not exactly breaking news but as you can see I have redesigned my blog! And if I say so my self its looking pretty dam cool.
Its not 100% yet as I have no idea what those "undefined" do-dars are on the left, so I'm working on it but I think it reflects me so much better (my secretary thinks so aswell)
So I wont faff around with it anymore as its taken me a couple of days to do, and I'll concentrate on writing my blog, instead of making it look pretty!!!
word of the week - Faff, or Faffing around, I just like the sound of it!!!!
Sunday, February 15, 2009 | | 2 Comments
I called this blog Rate limit exceeded because that's what keeps happening to me on tweetdeck!!! I couldn't think of anything else to call it, and that just popped into my head.
Maybe its cos I tweet to much, so I obviously have something to talk about!
Ive tried blogging before, and failed...got a bit bored of it and had nothing much to talk about BUT I've decided to give it another go, now that I'm doing a degree through the open uni, twittering, and just doing stuff in general, I may, just may be a bit more interesting.....or maybe not.
Saturday, February 14, 2009 | | 0 Comments